Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Is Saving A Relationship Worth It – Should I Try To Save My Relationship?

Is Saving A Relationship Worth It – Should I Try To Save My Relationship?




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Every relationship goes through struggles but after you have been fighting for a long time to keep it alive you may ask if saving a relationship like this really worth it.


You may be wondering "do I really want to save my relationship?"

  • You may have gone to marriage counseling and sought ways to bring back the love. You will have worked at your relationship, only to find that you once again start having intimacy problems of some kind.
  • You may have experienced struggles in your dating life.
  • You ask around for dating tips or advice and have been given some good suggestions only to find that the troubles are still there.

The struggles continue but there are some things you should think about to see if saving a relationship like the one you are in is worth the challenge. If you are thinking about getting a divorce or separating, you need to look at these things honestly and maybe get some serious relationship advice. Saving a relationship is an important thing to try and accomplish and will take a lot of work. It can also be frustrating work if the relationships not really there.


Write a list of the people you most enjoy spending time with:

  • Is your spouse or partner on that list?
  • Do you really enjoy spending time together? s
  • When was the last time you went out and just had fun?
  • Is it possible for the two of you to do that?
  • Are you content just being with them?

A good relationship between two people is going to be one where they can enjoy being together or can feel content just having the person there.


Another very important thing to consider when you are deciding if this relationship is worth saving is:

  • Does your partner or spouse make you feel like you are understood?
  • Do you listen to your spouse?
  • Do you feel like you are being listened to and that your partner or spouse understands you?

Spend some time and try to see if they do.


A relationship is supposed to be a place where you can go when you need to be comforted:

  • Is the relationship one that makes you feel comfort when you have gone through something bad?
  • Is the relationship something that you constantly need to be comforted about?

If you are looking elsewhere for comfort, there may be a problem.


If there are questions about faithfulness or infidelity, they need to be addressed:

  • Are you able to trust your partner or spouse?
  • Can your partner or spouse trust you?

If you have a problem answering either one of those questions affirmatively, then you may either need some serious marriage counseling or couple's therapy.

In saving a relationship, there are many other things to consider and a decision like this should not be taken lightly. Ask hard questions and search hard for answers and then you may be able to find if saving a relationship like the one you are in is worth it.


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