Help Save Marriage My SOS Cry

Help Save Marriage My SOS Cry

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"Help save marriage from falling apart!" This is the cry from so many who see their marriage sinking quickly. You know this ship is sinking but you do not know what you have to do to stop it. You are not ready to see your marriage sink into the abyss; you desperately need help save marriage advice. You are sending a S.O.S. for help! You will have to learn to sacrifice for your marriage. You have to learn to be able to open up and communicate. You have to learn to simplify your lives. You have to prevent things from being so complicated.

1. It is going to take some sacrifice:

Often when people want help and are saying "help! Save marriage" all they really want is for the other person to do all the work and fix all the problems. If you are looking at the other person as the root of the problem, take a close look at yourself. It may very well be that the other person is causing all the problems but you need to make sure that you aren't making matters worse.

Selfishness is most often the reason why marriages fail. Each partner feels life resolves around themselves. If this is how you feel your marriage is doomed. You are supposed to be one and if that is not the case and you think you are #1, there is no hope. Only if you are willing to sacrifice part of yourself and become one, you will have some hope of salvaging your marriage. The choice is simple, live as one or live as two people, apart! There is no midway.

2. Learn to open up and express your feelings:

There is a tendency that many of us have to bottle things up when we are stressed. This isn't healthy for any individual and it especially isn't healthy for a marriage. When you are under pressure for too long and that pressure grows, things are likely to build up too much. When things build up too much they may reach the point of an explosion! This can spell disaster for your marriage.

There may have been firecrackers going off when the two of you first kissed. It is nothing like the Nuclear Bomb that is likely to go off when you have let things stay bottled up for too long in a marriage. The longer you wait to bring resolution or to communicate problems, the bigger the explosion will be. You need to open up a bit to take off the pressure and help save marriage.

3. Simplify things and make life manageable:

We have a tendency to make things a lot more complicated than what they need to be. We make big issues out of little ones and mountains out of mole hills. Blowing things out of proportion is something that many of us do. If you are one that needs help save marriage, it is probable that you do this and therefore you make things far worse than they need to be.

Consider what it is that you really need to have in a mate. What is it you really need to exist? Try and simplify it as much as possible. Stop looking at all the details and try to find the root of the problems.

Think about this:

• Are you making too many demands?
  
• Are you being too picky about how you think things should be?
  
• Are you expecting too much?
  

Take a step back and consider that you may be making things more complicated than they need to be. Simplify and you just may be able to help save marriage.

These are a few pointers to help save marriage, but you are going to need more help. There is a very good e-book available from T 'Dub' Jackson called The Magic Of Making Up. In this you will find all the help you need to help save marriage. Have a look at it, you will save your marriage with T 'Dub' Jackson's help!

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